not coping

[outlander]

aww hes so cute @Sans911 he looks quite comfy laying there!

[Sans911]

He's snuggled me against for the last hour @outlander. He doesn't usually do this. He's still really vocal and annoying. I'm trying to be patient with him. Perhaps he's not meant to be on his own.

[HakunaKhunz]

Things seem hard, unbearable but the only thing we can do is do what u just did. Reach out. Find small things in life to make you happy like plant a sunflower seed and check it every day and watch it grow or gardening or colouring anything. The main point is - just for today. Dont worry about tomorrow, just be ok for today. Dont worry about being fantastic and try not to be miserable. Just be ok. Just for today. Tomorrow will be a little easier 😞

[outlander]

sounds like he still may be adjusting @Sans911
he looks quite calm and chilled out being with you though.

[Sans911]

Hi there @HakunaKhunz 

Welcome to the forums tonight.

[HakunaKhunz]

Hi. I'm new and a bit sad I just went past this discussion and it poked my heart guts 😞 hope ur ok Outlander. I honestly feel ur pain. My giant bunny died not long ago 😞

[outlander]

hi @HakunaKhunz  and welcome. well done for joining up to the forums

what brings you here tonight?

thanks for your kind words about how things are currently for me, much appreciated. 

Please feel free to have a look around and join in wherever you like or even create a thread for yourself so we can support you on your journey as well. 

we have a thread here called introduce yourself here   where your welcome to give a little inctroduction about yourself. 

Also a little forum tip is to put an @ before a members name, that way theyll recieve a notification that your talking to them. 

[HakunaKhunz]

Oh thanks haha. Yeah I made a post hopefully someone likeminded sees it. And it's ok. I have sever depression so I know how heavy things can be. I joined up just for some help and some tips really. I have borderline personality disorder. Tough sometimes 😞

[Sans911]

It's hard to know what he's really like as there is a lot if his first few years I don't know about @outlander.

[outlander]

sorry I just had to edit as the link would've taken you to the carers side @HakunaKhunz

I have BPD myself as does @Sans911 and I know a few other members too. ill take a look at your thread and see if I can offer you some advice.
your among likeminded people here for sure so I hope you find being here helpful