The Challenges of Mental Health Wellbeing

[Sans911]

Was your mother lonely when you weren't living with her @Shaz51? It's horrible though I think to live so long if you aren't happy. Some people are quite content, but others are not.

[Snowie]

Glad you had an ok day @Sans911 

Hope your rest helps you hun, and you get some more sleep tonight.

My day was going ok. Went to SIL house for lunch. When we got home M pretty much blamed me fofr ruining xmas. Now I am a total mess.

Oh well, the kids have had a good day, that is the main thing.

[Emelia8]

My Dad is 88 and gets very lonely since Mum died last year. @Sans911 @Shaz51 They were married for 62 years, a long time.

[Shaz51]

@Emelia8 , @Sans911 , @Snowie 

My mum has been  on her own for 14 years,  she never told me she was ever lonely 

But @Sans911 she is loving having us here , I can see it on her face 

😀

[outlander]

Trying @Sans911 just a pop in atm cause im still not finished here. Hopefully will be home in another hour

[Sans911]

🤬😡😤 I wish your mother could hold her viscous tongue for just one day @Snowie. Yes, the kids might have had a good day, but you deserve that too hun. You have done nothing wrong at all. Hugs and hugs😘💜😘💜😘💜

[Snowie]

That would be too nice @Sans911 She has to take it out on someone and I am always in the firing line. Likes to blame me for it.

prn have helped.

Will say goodnight hun, I hope you have a good night sis and get some sleep tonight.

[Sans911]

Yes, that is a long time @Emelia8 to be married. My foster mother was married for about 16 years when her husband died suddenly at the young age of 49. I was actually staying with them at the time and although I didn't see him die, I remember him looking terribly unwell. I was only 7. He was the father of my dreams compared to the other poor biological excuse. Because my foster mother lived in a small country town with a very basic hospital, they had to drive 45mins to a larger town. And he was only taken to a drs surgery where he collapsed and died of a heart attack. I was incredibly angry and upset with my foster mother because he never came home, and it was never explained to me why for a very long time. After that, my foster mother had to return to full time work. Continuing to foster me was not possible & a possible consideration of adoption was also dropped.

Goodnight @Snowie 😴😴😴

[Shaz51]

But it will be anxious  time for Mr shaz  

@Emelia8 , @Sans911 

[Zoe7]

You did not ruin christmas at all @Snowie Lay the blame where it belongs - with you B and now you M for choosing her side and for further choosing not to believe the truth. You have had a lovely day with your family that care about you so do not let her nastiness or lack of any sort of empathy change that Hon. Hugs and hugs and hugs