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I'm so sorry @outlander you don't deserve any of what's being thrown in your direction. Love and hugs always 💞🌷

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Hugs dear @Clawde 🤗🙏☺️

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Hi @outlander 

I am saddened to read your message about the letter and I am pleased your Pop has gone away for a few days.

 

i am sorry you feel worthless and I want to assure you that I certainly don’t think that about you and I can see many others value you a lot.

 

You are kind, considerate, loving, hardworking and a treasure in every way.

 

Please believe the positive attributes that we see in you and not the cruel negative lies.

 

Oodles of love hun

💜💖💙🤗💙💖💜

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Oh @outlander, you are treated so appalling. And you are none of those things that have been said. Don't forget, it's written by someone who has dementia and whose cognitive ability is impaired. Also, he possibly knows that something is wrong with him, and is angry himself that he's loosing his health. And he may still be grieving the loss of his wife. So he's taking it out on the one closest who's sometimes restricting his freedom. It's not right or fair at all. You can't deal with this and your issues much longer.

I know which anniversary is coming up too. And you aren't responsible for that awful event. You were trying to protect your sister. Accidents happen.

I can't see you being that different here in the forums from real life. We all know how caring, kind, compassionate and generous you are. Try to believe us here, and not a letter full of venom, anger and hate.

I'm sitting here tonight with you sweetheart 💕💕💕💕

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@outlander  I'm shocked about the letter - and hurt on your behalf. And I'm sorry that the treatment doesn't seem to be working, and also for your bad anniversary today... Am thinking of you very much and wishing for whatever you need to get through this. I agree with @Emelia8  that I wish you could stop your caring role. 


Sending lots of 💙

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@outlander 🙏💕🌷🌸💕

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I understand even here today might not be a safe place for you @outlander but I do hope you're being treated with some kindness, dignity and respect. Thinking of you lil Sis ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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@Shaz51 @Sans911 @Anastasia @NatureLover @Eve7 @Snowie @Emelia8  @Lee82   @Bellarose75 💜🌻💙

 

Im sorry  i dont have many words atm, my brain is really frazzled and tired. I have so far avoided hospital. The fever  has eased up but not feeling much better. The treatment meds give me really bad headaches, some dizzyness and neck and muscle aches as well esp since im taking it 4 times a day. Will see the Dr again on friday, she gave me phone appt today instead  of me coming in thankfully. 

Today bas been hard mentally and im trying  to just get through today and the next few days as well. Thanks for thr tags and for being here

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❤❤❤❤ @outlander 

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Sorry you are so unwell little. Sending you some gentle hugs. @outlander